In The Sea
Way back in April 2010, I found and lost Mr Buble in the Husband Department.
We never actually got married. In fact, his agent never did respond to my phone, cell, email or written invitations for PRE-engagement – PRE-marriage – PRE-sex dates!
Of course, the lack of response really isn’t surprising considering he was engaged to be married.
Following the age old principle that we all use to help ourselves recover in times of romantic challenge;
‘life must go on & go catch another fish’, (cause there’s so many of them in the sea)
I turned my eyes to Shemar Moore.
Turns out he’s possibly Gay? [I don’t believe it for an instant Shemar, in case you ever actually read this]
When we choose our partner, how do we do it?
Do our personal preferences sometimes lead us to failure in the romance department?
Once we realise we messed up, (like the times we walk away from almost every conversation feeling worse about ourselves) how long does it take us to correct our mistakes?
Do we hang on for dear life fearing the end, digging a deeper, more difficult hole to climb out of?
Or
Do we let go, grieve and allow our experience to reshape our priorities and preferences in the future?
It’s a fine line, the Romance Department.
Selection, Checkout, Returns, Warranty, the sometimes dreaded Consumer Feedback.
There aren’t many of us that get excited hearing about how we could be functioning more efficiently – especially for purposes we weren’t created for. (In my case, cooking.)
It seems spending more time defining what it is we’re looking for, and then researching the product before investing is probably a good way to go.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZAaky0e1iE8 I think Shemar is super fine 😛 but after I watched this, I was curious about him being gay too because I don’t know any straight guy that would do this. You need to watch this!
Shemar Moore is a beautiful man. I didn’t know there were rumors he’s gay!
I’ve no idea, and if I ever have the chance to meet him, I’ll deny I ever even considered it! (And delete the line in my blog)
I love your style and your taste…lol; On Criminal Minds, he is by far the sexiest with a touch of the feminine side (in his role of course but that’s what we fall for) being such a great bff to Garcia…{sigh}) I have my own thoughts on a few firemen on Chicago Fire.
Oh goodness @ Chicago Fire! You know that lead guy Jesse Spencer, he’s an aussie!! *beaming smiles*…
Also, if he’s not married and all that stuff, Taylor Kinney will be the next famous specimen I ask for pre marriage dates.. Now just to find his legit twitter account! lol
Loved him in House! and any aussie accent WINS but I’d go for Taylor Kinney and my number UNO is Eamonn Walker…{heart thump}
Ohhh I LOVE heart Thumps!! *grinning*.. I love house.. Hugh Laurie I could spend the rest of my life with – HE IS SOOOO wonderfully sarcastic! lol
🙂
*wiggles eyebrows*
Oh – he can’t be gay – that would be a crime against all of us. OMG what I wouldn’t give (anything Shemar) to hear that husky voice saying “anything baby girl!” LOL Thanks for dropping by my blog. Its been delicious stopping by yours.
Yes, a crime! Not only against women, but also humankind. The man MUST reproduce! lol (REALLY hopes he never reads this)
*steam out my ears thinking about that husky voice*
Yes please!
Great choice Miss Lou!! I love Criminal minds and all investigative TV shows (sighs I’m such a sucker!) My favorite is Matthew Gray Grubler! But then I do have a thing for geeks. 😀
He is rather attractive in a very geek kinda way. That man has the smarts!
Shemar..excellent choice! I loved him in Diary of a Mad Black Woman.
I have never seen that, though *races off and places in my to watch list* I expect now that I know it exists I will make it a priority!
I loved him in Toni Braxtons clip ‘How Many Ways’ – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xMz1kwMY19Q
Thanks for dropping by and leaving a comment 🙂
Miss Lou
Think I just discovered my new favorite music video. He looks so YOUNG here.
Enjoy the movie. He plays a great character.
Lol.. Yes, yes he does.. *turns around to casually walk off and slips in my own drool*
Mature Louella, very mature…. lol
And this is why they invented those smaller towels. Very handy for mopping up drool puddles. 😉
Exactly! lol
The back and forth between you and OM is priceless! Love it. Off to lurk through other posts to find more hilarious banter now …
Mr OM http://aopinionatedman.com/ is an awesome critter (though don’t tell him I told him so) I actually thought of him when I heard the song Brave,
Have fun lurking 🙂
Miss Lou
♥
super place you have here! 😀
you mention doing a guest post above and it occurs to me that an elaboration on this particular post theme would be a brilliant and timely addition over at Neptune & the Oak. whether you were kidding or not, have a think and let me know…you are definitely in your element with written expression – and I am tough to please!
appreciate much your follow. I shall return 🙂
all the best
Thanks so much for your kind words 🙂
I can’t recall ever seriously offering a guest post anywhere.. lol.. Honestly I wouldn’t want the self induced pressure!
I am currently reading through your guest blogger post ‘La Pensée Sauvage’ which is rather interesting 🙂
It has been lovely to meet you! Thanks so much for dropping by!
Miss Lou
good morning, miss lou 🙂 i must have misunderstood the ‘banter’ above and was hoping to show my lil readership that energy is everywhere, not just at some astro desk. but that’s ok, i can just send them here 🙂
off to have a look around…
weaver
Oh did you mean re blog? lol.. Feel free to share my bloggies if you want to, that is absolutely okay. just make sure you provide credit where due 🙂
Thanks so much for dropping by and taking the time to converse 🙂
Love it! And I too love Shemar! Gay? No way!! And grazie much for following. Hope to see you back real soon!
Diddo! I’m having some trouble leaving comments on your posts using my android, so might have to wait till I get back on the pc. Thanks so much for yours!
You are most welcome. I’m very much enjoying your site. Sorry for the trouble you’re having with the android but your comments are coming through.
For yours? I just tried to leave a comment expressing my outrage at the mother using her daughter as a surrogate on your latest post*growls* though wouldn’t let me post…. 😦
Even if he was gay, it could never take away from his fine-ness! And he is FINE!
100% Agree!! lol… *swoons and faints*
So, first of all, thank you a loooot for following my blog, second of all, your blog is freakin’ awesome! and I haven’t stopped giggling since I clicked through to the link. When I feel gloomy or tired, I’m going to come through and read all your archives to cheer me up. Nice work and I’ll see you around. 🙂 Katie
Thanks so much for your wonderful comment! I feel freaking awesome right now.. *beaming smiles*
I’m really happy that you have been having a bit of a giggle. I do a variety of funnies and serious blogs, depending on how I am feeling.
I look forward to having a read through your blog, and hope we keep in touch! Thanks so much again!
Miss Lou
Hey my pleasure *grins* yeah I’m also looking forward to reading a bit more of yours 🙂 see you around! Blue
😀
Louella, He is a hunk of a man! (ouch) be still my heart…lol
*giggling* Right?! *dreamy sighs* Though as we all know… the way a person looks does not necessarily mean they are going to be half productive in a relationship!
Why is my avatar this sissy blue guy…. I am so manly…
Your monitor is messed up.
The blue is very manly.
Dude… dude…
By and by, as I drink my second drink, this place is kinda dark. Anyone? Anyone?
*snorks* This is what happens when you don’t blog for 4 weeks because you have lots of excuses and don’t have a blog addiction… 😛
Not mentioning any names…..
Can I go 4 weeks you think?
No.
What should we bet?
Carefully considers the consequences and abusive comments I will get when 15,000 bloggers realise I am responsible for your absence.
Carefully considers the very real possibility you will just have another secret, undercover blog that I will be the only one not to know about.
Considers the potential results of proposing to wager that I get to write a guest blog about you on your own blog.. With an audience of 15,000 people, that could be rather entertaining.
*ponders*
So that is the terms? lol
In my defense I would but someone always asks if I died…
Also, while you are here, you could actually post a comment on the premise of the blog instead of focusing on how handsome he is.
*ponders*
Superficial much? (and about that ‘HOW’ bit) 😛
Your first lines were on how sexy he was!
*scrolls up to see if the word sexy was written in this blog*
Nope.
I assumed from the pre pre pre offerings. =P
So, what you are stating is. YOU think he is SEXY.
Ahh. Gotchya.
Oh lord…
Guy assessment: the dude is good looking and handsome, BUT he does strike me as an undercover brother… just saying.
*bursts into tears*
But I could be wrong… I can safely say I have no idea who is gay or not. 😉
I thought it better not to question exactly ‘HOW’ you would even be able to identify a specimen such as an ‘Undercover Brother’
hahaha well I did grow up in a majority black city.
*notes down details of childhood demographic*
Careful, now. There are stalkers about, eh!
I already admitted that. Sorry you aren’t privy, yet, to undisclosed info lol…
It’s probably best. I know people. They might come and steal the playground from your yard and the gnomes from your carefully weeded garden.
hah! Carefully weeded lmao!
Apologies, it’s that attention to detail thing again.
I hate that yard!
I am going to sit in here a bit and drink my 6 pack I just got.
While in the bath, or sitting on the toilet. We do call it a throne here.
lmao. Baths keep me young!
Smiles. He is handsome! Very handsome!
LOL! He is rather handsome, isn’t he…
My celebrity crush after Buble fell through!
Thanks for dropping by Cheryl *huggles*